What is the most overrated pleasure? Why?

On one insane occasion we were going to play with another couple so 2 guys and 2 ladies. My girl called up a friend who we both had played with before and the other couple brought another woman with them who wanted to join in. No sooner than they all arrived another lady joined us who had originally declined but changed her mind . So.. 2 guys and 5 women. Then the other guy dropped out and watched a football game in the other room because he was having troubles getting it up. He was diabetic, also recovering from prostate cancer so not that he was grossly out of shape or anything , just a bad situation for him. Left me with 5 ladies on a King size bed. Way too much workload. They all played with one another to varying degrees but then it fell to me to give them the 10 inches I was lucky enough to have between my legs . Played with condoms of course which made it more difficult and less enjoyable so really , while it was partying like a rock star and I can proudly say it’s off my bucket list . Came 4 times that night. Once each with 3 of the ladies by oral and hand jobs and once in my girl friends pussy while she was having her boobs sucked on by one , while kissing another and another girl making out with me. Sounds better than it actually was. Lots of awkward bumping , hard to get a good position. Kind of like playing twister where everyone needs to figure out where to kneel, lay , careful not to hurt anyone .

Most guys always aspire to have a threesome as did I . I was in the swing community for a few years when I was in a relationship with a cute , petite bi- blonde. Kind of looked like a young Ellen Degeneres. Short blonde hair, sassy. Not everyone’s cup of tea but I love the look. Now there are different shades of bi women from my observations . There are the ladies who will make out with another lady but not much more. Most the ladies who I encountered who proffered to being bi were bi from the waist up. Some were just doing it to make their guy happy. My lady was always bringing other ladies home , sometimes they would let me join, sometimes just watch and sometimes just say sorry and close the bedroom door and play one on one.

Over the course of the 5 years we were together I would say I had almost 100 threesomes. I am good in bed and am well endowed but honestly pleasuring 2 women is quite a bit of work . i never liked giving oral, I just don’t like the taste. Ladies would sometimes call me out on it . Now if pussy tasted like chocolate, what a thought , what’s great thing that would be. Women would be happier. If cumm tasted like chocolate too , that would be a wonderful world. I suppose if I was an inconsiderate lover it would have been better. And could have just satisfied my urges and stopped. After the novelty wore off I preferred to play one on one. It was fun to watch her play with a fully bi lady , no pressure for me to pleasure them and just a visual treat for me.

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She brought home her own lawyer and out of all of the threesomes that was hands down the best. Both were truly bi, more lesbian than straight. They kissed, licked , sucked and prodded one another everywhere . I joined in after over an hour and made love to both of them. I always wore condoms when we swung reserving bare back for only my girlfriend. This time at their insistence . I played bare back with both. Making love is different than just having sex. It’s more gentle , relaxed, tender. Lots of kissing and mutual touching . The grande finale for the guy is releasing in the pussy after a long session of foreplay and then just laying back and drifting off to sleep together . Back then I could reload in about 15 minutes, so gave them both a load in the pussy before collapsing . I was in the middle and each lady put their head on my chest and cuddled in and we all drifted off to sleep together . It felt awesome and to wake up the next morning that way was such a feeling . I made love to each of them individually the next morning . If that’s what all threesomes were like I would change the answer but that’s the exception to the rule. 1 time out of a hundred . That was the one threesome which got repeated several times. We all liked it.

I’m out of the swing lifestyle now. Have been out for a decade. Glad I experienced it but one on one with someone you are totally enamored with is the best .